Wednesday, February 17, 2016

"So have I become your enemy by telling you the truth?"


Whose right is right? 


This is a question I asked in my post during the time a sensitive topic became controversial. And currently, it's become, again, a question since different groups have their own opinion about Manny Pacquiao's bold answer to an interview question, which required him to give his own stand/opinion about the issue of "Same-Sex Marriage". A lotta people gave their comments and expressed disappointment on how, as they say, he maligned the LGBT group. They are calling for RESPECT. Known media icons violently reacted. A great number called Manny uneducated and idiot. Even some Christians did not approve of what he did. Then, of course, there are still those who supported Manny and came to his defense. 


But the question remains whose right is right?


Have we forgotten that the person we hailed as our National Hero said this line, "He who does not love his own language is worse than an animal and smelly fish"?  And this line is widely accepted and taught in schools. Must we, then, vote this person out as our National Hero as he did not acknowledge and respect "freedom of choice" and furthermore offended not only the people in his time but also the current generation of Filipinos who are mostly English speakers? Just what is the comparison between people who practice their freedom to choose what language to use and an animal and a smelly fish? I mean, do Philippine animals love Filipino language and actually loyally use it that's why Jose Rizal had to say they are better than Filipino people who do not patronize their own language? Does it degrade, in anyway, the Philippines as a country if its citizens rather use another language as their medium of communication? But, I believe Jose Rizal only had such great passion for the country that he expressed his nationalistic point of view in this manner, and not necessarily because he "hates" people who do not speak the Filipino language. In the same way, Manny Pacquiao has such great zeal for the Law of God and he expressed it using an analogy, which if you come to think of it makes a lotta sense. 


If we are just not  bias about Manny's statement, we will find that he's actually talking about the "natural order of things" based on God's design. An animal's "natural" instinct is to search for "opposite" gender to satisfy its sexual need/urge. Plain and simple. His statement is NOT idiotic but factual. There may be records of certain animals observed to display "homosexual behavior", yes. Yet, it is UNNATURAL in a sense because the intention for copulation is reproduction. Mating is intended for multiplication. And if homosexuality behavior should become a practice, every animal species will decline in number. Again, it is against the natural order of things. Research what causes certain animals do what they do, and may we all be judges as to whether their behavior must be considered acceptable and should be practiced by humans. (Read: Are There Homosexual Animals? Note the subtitle: Lots of animals engage in homosexual behaviour, but whether they are truly homosexual is another matter entirely.) 


In fact, the LGBT groups' argument that homosexuality is natural because it exists in the animal kingdom makes them concede to what they say is condemnation to them because they compare their own selves to animals by justifying, "if animals do it, it is natural... therefore we also can."  But animals do not have sense of right and wrong. They cannot read the Bible. They go by instinct. Humans are created to make proper judgment. Why must we follow practices that animals do? Homosexual behavior among animals is not even a lifestyle choice. And animals do not operate within any moral context. Just because animals have certain practices does not mean those practices must be embraced and observed by humans. Some animals eat their young, but this does not permit humans to be cannibals. Some insects after mating devour their partners, yet it is unacceptable for any human to do the same. We cannot, and must not, use animal behavior as basis to justify our chosen behavior.


Here's another additional fact. homosexual is also different from "hermaphrodite". To highlight a bit the difference, hermaphrodite is "natural". Meaning, the organism is naturally created the way it is — having both male and female reproductive organs. While homosexual is more of a preference or what is commonly known as sexual orientation. No matter how anyone asserts that it is biological or has scientific basis, each gender still remains to have only one reproductive organ and have no option to change later on. Except through surgical means. We know from sex education for which these organs are intended.


Manny did not say the things he said out of hate, but out of passion for God's Word. He was asked what's his stance and he answered from his strong conviction. Does he hate LGBT by answering a question in the manner he did? Did Jose Rizal hate Filipino English speakers when he composed his poem? I believe, they are only fighting coming from their own positions. Besides, the topic is clearly NOT about LGBTs but SAME-SEX MARRIAGE. It is not people Manny referred to, but the ACT or PRACTICE. He is against the ACT/HUMAN LAW...whatever you call it... NOT the people. How come people react violently as if they ARE the act? ...So, why did he have to compare humans to animals? — To remind us all the "natural order of things" — "opposite"-sex as designed by the Creator of the universe and NOT "same"-sex. There's purpose why it is male and female. It is not for humans to re-order the design of God. That makes us violators of His design. Read excerpts from my post, Let's All Stand Firmly Together Against the Many Faces of Hate:


"If artists are protesting that their designs are being copied, therefore, their lawful right to their masterpieces is violated, how much more the Creator of all things has the right to also make a stand?..."

"...as advocates of God's Law, Christians will speak of what the Law says. Christians act as Law enforcers or policemen.  What does a law enforcer or a policeman do? They have the duty of maintaining law and order. In their (Christians) case, they are maintaining the Law of God to keep everything IN "order".  Must they be charged for doing what they're supposed to be doing? They are fighting NOT for what they want, or feel, or think. They are fighting for what has long been established―God's Law and Decrees."


Mr. Pacquiao is an advocate of God's Law. He did not speak in front of camera out of nowhere just to shout out his firm belief and to provoke anyone. He was asked. So happened that his opinion is not widely accepted by everyone. Because many have chosen self-rule. “In the last times there will be people who laugh at God and do only what they want to do—things that are against God.” [Jude 1:18] People will fight for what they hold as their rights. And as we all uphold convictions and advocacy, it is inevitable that we will offend others. It is given. But, which right must we uphold, ours or God's?  


You hate those prophets, who go to public places and speak against evil,  
even though they teach good, simple truths.  [Amos 5:10]

The time will come when people will not listen to the true teaching. 
But people will find more and more teachers who please them. 
They will find teachers who say what they want to hear. [2 Timothy 4:3]


But, Manny is not one who says what people want to hear just to please them and win their votes. Of course, he knows he will lose a large number of voters for sticking to his stance. But, just like Jesus, he chose to please God by advocating the Truth than fearing the judgment of men. Now, is Manny without sin? Is he faultless? Did he never commit sin? We all know he did, and surely, he still commits certain violations against God. No one is righteous. Pointing out sin does not require one to be without sin. But must he stop speaking the Truth only because he isn't perfect?


Christians only act as police officers maintaining/enforcing God's Law. They're not perfect. They also commit certain violations just like policemen, judges, politicians do. But, they still ought to do their duty as God's servants, nevertheless. [Let's All Stand Firmly Together Against the Many Faces of Hate]


People wanted only to do evil. So God left them and let them go their sinful way. And so they became completely immoral and used their bodies in shameful ways with each other. They traded the truth of God for a lie. They bowed down and worshiped the things God made instead of worshiping the God who made those things. He is the one who should be praised forever. Amen.

Because people did those things, God left them and let them do the shameful things they wanted to do. Women stopped having natural sex with men and started having sex with other women. In the same way, men stopped having natural sex with women and began wanting each other all the time. Men did shameful things with other men, and in their bodies they received the punishment for those wrongs. [Romans 1:24-27]

And may we not also forget that Jesus made statements like, "you brood of vipers!"  Vipers are venomous snakes. He called some people snakes. He referred to gentiles as dogs. He calls His people sheep.  Jesus used metaphors and they can all be found in the four Gospels. If we do not want to be compared to animals, then let us behave like humans and not pattern our actions on their behavior and practices.  







 

Saturday, February 13, 2016

A Love with a promise of permanence.


"...if any hear MY voice and open the door, 
I will come into their house and eat with them, 
and they will eat with ME." 
~ Jesus 
[Revelation 3:20]

When we open our hearts to Jesus and choose to be in a relationship with Him, it does not mean we are getting ourselves into a system which will require our hard work, nor will we be graded for our performance. We are not expected to blindly obey rules and keep a running tally of our deeds--that if we fail, HE will not anymore want us. The verse above does NOT say, "Jesus will come to our homes, pound on the door and demand we let Him in, and once inside, start demanding we do this and that...OR else....." Jesus comes to us in friendship. He offers UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. The love He offers is not the same as what the world offers ― a love of convenience ...loving only IF it serves "me".


What Jesus offers is simply to get to know Him deeper and be in a relationship with Him. When we begin to learn about Him and His ways...when we understand His cause and when we experience the LOVE He has for us it will enable us to become like Him and will make us desire what He desires for us as we continue abiding in Him. Our very experience with Him is what will transform us to become better versions of ourselves. It is as simple and as complicated (for a human mind to fathom) like that.


So if what hinders you from receiving God's invitation of relationship with Him is FEAR, know that He requires nothing from you except the whole of you. Come to Him as you are. You do not need to change yourself to be qualified. God clearly says in His Word...

"I will put a new spirit in you to change your way of thinking. I will take out the heart of stone from your body and give you a tender, human heart. I will put my Spirit inside you and change you so that you will obey My laws. You will carefully obey My commands." [Ezekiel 36:26]

Notice it is all "His work". He did not say, "You should do this and that and then we will be ok." He clearly said, "I will change you and you will be changed." All we need is to receive the invitation and trust that God already qualified us through His Son, Jesus. Nothing to fear, we only need to TRUST His Word.  ^_^  And then, the commandment to love Him and His people will eventually become automatic to us.


Most of us are tired of loving because it seems we always have to keep giving...keep putting our best foot forward or we lose those we love. That when our human tendency fails to satisfy their needs, it's over. But, here is a LOVE which has a promise of permanence. Receive this unconditional LOVE, today. ^_^ 






Saturday, November 21, 2015

One Way to Take My Mind Off My Spinning Worries

For the past weeks (maybe months), I've not been the hyper, fun self that I am. Been feeling low and down. Having a hard time to stay focused and motivated. To make matters worse, I've also been unwell on and off. Which drove me to research about anxiety and stress. I stumbled upon this site, Calm Clinic, which also provided a short test to asses one's stress / anxiety level. My first take gave this result...


Take the 7-minute test and check your anxiety level.

Am not a fanatic of tests that I right away just believe the results I get, but with the symptoms I have, I acknowledge that I've been stressed and burned out lately. 

Was even tempted to blame it all on water. Could be my excuse not to continue with the therapy. :P  But, though it's been making me feel so bloated, I need to acknowledge the benefits I've seen evident since I started regularly hydrating. So...ok, no more excuses. I'll just keep up with it.

My next take after a few days showed this result...



Whenever my head terribly feels like cracking into pieces, my eyes feel like popping out, my shoulders and back feel heavy and stiff, and my stomach like going to burst open, I knew I need to help myself not to feel sorry for being unwell and unproductive. This condition only heightens my stress level. So, instead of just resolving to my hobby (sulking), I watch entertaining and funny videos posted by random people. Laughter is the best medicine, as they say.

And I found one extremely amusing video shared by someone on Facebook, which I don't grow tired watching. Seriously made me laugh out loud! Viewed it many times. Somehow, makes me feel better.

For the sake of those who have not yet seen (which is next to impossible), here I posted the video...




Made me wonder what makes cats leap so high upon seeing a cucumber. I showed the video to friends last weekend and all us wondered together. One friend thought of trying it out with his pet cats and the rest of us consented. Even asked him to take a video of his experiment. 

Today, I thought of Googling why cats react that way seeing a cucumber. There's a long list of threads and on top of the list comes from the National Geographic website. So, that's what I opened. Here's some of the facts I learned...

...the cucumbers are triggering the cats' natural startle responses since they don't normally see cucumbers on the floor.
 ...it's also possible that they may associate the green invader with snakes...
...with a startle response, a cat will often try to get out of there as quickly as possible and then reasses from a distance... 
Read full article HERE.

Hmmm...I feel no guilt whatsoever. And it won't stop me from watching the video. But, definitely, I won't stress any pet animals (esp my dog Keero) that way. Still, it makes me curious if our local cats would have the same reaction as many stray cats are exposed to various objects. *grins*


Thursday, November 19, 2015

Working at being Consistent Not to be Inconsistent Consistently


One late night while watching The 700 Club Asia on GMA News TV11, there's this interview with a lady doctor, Ma. Elizabeth A. Micaller, which caught my attention. I think the portion is part of the program's sorta like public service where they provide health information, which they call "Facts Report". There they featured the Benefits of Drinking Water

Growing up, I didn't really learn the importance of hydrating. Yes, of course, it was taught in school and elsewhere facts like,"up to 60% of the human adult body is water." Every so often, I heard health professionals saying "drink eight glasses a day". But, it didn't really sink in to me the importance of drinking water. More so, I didn't know that most of my health concerns are related to lack of H2O.

From the interview, Dr. Micaller stated that in most cases, when people feel something wrong in their bodies, they right away resort to taking medication, which is not totally wrong. However, it is noteworthy to consider her statement saying (not verbatim), "since the body is composed of a huge percent of water, when you lose just 10%, you could already feel something not right." She also added that, "when we feel something not good concerning our health, say headache or colds, we must rather first consider hydrating. We must've just probably neglected to fill ourselves with water." Makes sense. Logically, when something loses even a small part of it, it can malfunction. Just the same with our bodies. Not having enough water may not manifest a serious effect in our health right away, but eventually will.


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The serious problem is, it's been a struggle on my end to drink water. For years, I've developed a habit of drinking occasionally. Usually, only when extremely thirsty, or after eating sweets and salty food that I remember to sip. This is NORMAL for me, which I didn't know NOT normal for any living thing. And those years, I've battled with many ailments I could've been spared of had I just learned to practice hydrating. I wish I could turn back time and I'll start over making water a significant part of my life. It's never too late, though. Only, if it did happen earlier in my life, I could've saved myself from spending so much on skin treatment products because of allergies and zits! And, my skin could've now been displaying elasticity and radiant glow. A concern I'd been most frustrated about, though stomach problems and headache and other illness should've been on top of my list I wish to not experience anymore. Hehe. Lessons, indeed, come late after every tests!

What Dr. Micaller shared was something I kept reciting in my head, but I seriously find hard to do. Especially, my stomach has become accustomed to not being stuffed more than its normal capacity. Drinking in the morning also makes me feel so bloated. It's such a tough thing to start a habit a little later than one should've had. And this isn't just a habit that I need to kick start just for the heck of complying to a general health advice. It is a must. It is vital. Crucial to keeping my body at a good condition. I ought to be a good steward of this body God gave me, which the Word refers to as the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19). Therefore, I need to exert more effort in taking care of this temple. 

So, I looked for ways I could remain consistent in this attempt to keep the amount of water in my body at a normal healthy level on a daily basis. Of course, I realized  that this requires a lotta discipline and consistency. These are the prime essentials. Otherwise, whatever tool I use will not be of help, at all. So, how am I going to add this to my to-do-list without failing to exercise it only because my body doesn't automatically alert me? I thought I needed something to keep me notified. Thanks to TECHNOLOGY, there are countless apps to use to help people with my same problem. (Just now I've been alerted! I'll step out shortly to get a 250ml cup of water.)


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Back from gulping down B'lue, my current favorite flavored water. ^_^
There are only three flavors: Orange, Calamansi, and Lychee. My most favorite is Orange.


B'lue is a new refreshing lifestyle water-based drink designed for you! 
It is inspired by the #LiveToFeel generation. Try it!

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Going back, I wanna share this app I found and it's been a big help so far. Hourly, I am being reminded that I hafta hydrate. The app am talking about is called, Aqualert. I downloaded it from Google Play about late last month. It is wonderfully serving me well. With this app, you can decide how much water in ml or oz you want to drink at a given time, and you can also choose how often within the day you're going to drink to help you reach your goal. Like in my case, I chose to complete 1500ml within 10am til 12mn, drinking 250ml every hour. It's not really healthy enough, but believe me it's a huge improvement! I used to finish a 1500ml in one or two weeks! So I am congratulating myself for the progress. ^_^

Am gonna show how well am doing the past weeks...


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My Weekly Progress

First Week
(Started on Tuesday)



 Second Week
(Mostly sick the entire week)



Third Week
(Looking Good)



Current Week
@14:25



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I love the app. I find it really useful and helpful. Though, am already starting to get annoyed hearing the notification sound. Not because the sound is annoying. Just, it's really not easy to start a habit. And definitely, it is not easy to drink this much water. I always feel stuffed and it makes me feel so uncomfortable. What I don't like most is that I get to be in the loo every few minutes after drinking 250ml! At times I just wanna hang out there until my next cup. But, then, this is part of the discipline. If I want to be healthy, I gotta keep focusing on reaching the end of the tunnel than whine about the hassles it brings along the way. Whew! Suggestion for an app to use to keep a positive outlook?!


But, look! Aqualert not only alerts me, it also motivates me, as well... 

I have a lot to look forward to!



 
 

Friday, November 13, 2015

A Jolt of Joy Weakens Pain

"Be joyful always." First time I read this line from the Bible, it made me think how can it be possible to remain joyful when a lotta factors affect one's mood? Who wants to be sad and negative, anyway? I am certain that everyone would rather want to always feel happiness. Nobody hankers to feel annoyed, nor frustrated, nor fearful...not any bad and negative feelings. It is happiness and everything it brings which people desire. Yet things happen. Situations beyond our control influence our state. Traffic, other people's irresponsibility and inconsideration, accidents, mishaps, delays...these are but just some of the countless things we are often forced to face even we refuse to. No matter how we try hard to avoid certain things and situation that steal happiness, they simply show up―uninvited.

This is the reality, which should not anymore come to us as a surprise since Jesus already warned all us that "in this life, we will have many troubles". Both good and bad situations co-exist with us. They come around. We can't wish all the good for ourselves and the bad to disappear. The fight to maintain inner peace and joy in order to remain in the state of happiness is not in the WISHING for things to happen according to our comfort, but in the CHOOSING to be comfortable in the midst of discomfort. Happiness is a choice that should not be dependent on outward situation; it is a result of being fully decided to remain happy regardless of what life presents.

Being and staying happy is hard work. Doesn't come in a silver platter. This is the reality. One can never be happy by simply waiting for his her situation to get better. Unkind and inconsiderate people are everywhere, the Sun's heat burns the skin, some places are simply chaotic and stinky, rush hours get you stuck, computer acts up when you badly need to meet a deadline, network service is poor, cashier crew moves so slow, someone not deserving gets promoted instead of you, you're always the subject of gossip-mongers...none of these things is within anyone's control. Nobody likes any of these. But these are realities. And whining about things you have no control over only aggravates the frustration which already has built its nook inside of you. By wishing things to be different, we are only painting mental pictures of how things could have been better had they been the way we think they should be, yet nothing gets fixed. It only makes us resent things even more. We only get more frustrated at how things are going wrong around us. But it's not the things around us that's wrong. It is us. Our perspectives...

We are wrong for... 

expecting the world to adjust for us.  
demanding for a better world.
allowing our emotions dictate how we should feel and behave.
making things outside of ourselves accountable to our own happiness.
making people responsible for our misery.


But the truth really is...


The world came before us. It has no obligation to make us happy.
There is nothing wrong in the world. It just exists and revolves as designed.
Our emotions were never our masters. We just give them the upper hand.
Our happiness is ours. It's within. Situations come and go. They mind no one. They don't happen to deliberately make anyone suffer. They don't connive to make sure our day is ruined.
It is not another person's responsibility to make us happy. It's our own responsibility to ourselves.


Simply put, we just behave so entitled. Just because we exist we think things should go our way. The way that is convenient and comfortable for us. But, in the bigger scheme of things, we are not all that matters. The world won't stop just because we're annoyed for every single unpleasant thing that happens to us. The world won't be sorry that we are always displeased. The world won't turn itself into our slave just for us to be always happy. It's not how things go. 

The Bible tells us to "Always be joyful. Always keep on praying. No matter what happens, always be thankful, for this is God’s will for you..." [1 Thessalonians 5:16-18]

It is not God's obligation to keep us happy. He is not our slave that when we want something, we go to Him and order Him to do for us what will satisfy us, and then we will be happy. No, the Word is clear, it is His will for us to maintain joy in our hearts no matter the circumstance; to be thankful in all situations; and to pray unceasingly. There is nowhere in the lines nor in the entire passage that God tells us to be joyful, thankful, and prayerful only in this or that condition. We were told to ALWAYS choose these things regardless of what the world throws at us...and I believe the reason is because being joyful, thankful and prayerful prove that we have faith in Him. That our inner peace rests in His Truth and not in the things around us. That we place our trust not in "chariots and horses". Our focus is not in the receiving all that we long for, but in simply waiting for His daily supplication. That we love Him even when we are denied the comfort, the material blessings, anything that brings smile to our faces.

Faith in God is tested not in believing that God will simply do what we ask Him to do for us; but in trusting that whether He gives what we ask for or not, we hold true in our hearts that He is good and faithful, and that His love endures forever. We trust Him with His answer―whether yes or no, when, and how―His term and not our terms. Besides, the Bible tells us that God will give us what we ask for in prayer according to His will. If we say that He is God, then we oughta leave to Him the decision to grant or deny our requests. And our response must show humility"not my will but Yours be done."  

So, if we truly trust His answer, we will express a thankful and joyful heart. Just like when King David finally received God's answer to his prayer and fasting. He pleaded for his child's life. When God gave His answer, even it was a NO, he got up, fixed himself, gave thanks, and went on with the day. (2 Samual 12:14-31).   

It is our duty to maintain a happy heart. We must not look for reasons to be joyful and thankful. We must learn to delight ourselves in the Lord (Psalm 37:4). The Word did not tell us only once to remain joyful...

In the book of Romans, 
"rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." 

In Philippians 4:4, 
"rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice"

In the book of James, 
"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, 
for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. 
And let steadfastness have its full effect, 
that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing"

In 1 Peter 4:13, 
"But you should be happy that you are sharing in Christ’s sufferings."


The Word tells us to be joyful/happy...even in difficult and trying situations. The command is to BE JOYFUL ALWAYS. How? By praying and asking for humility and for grace to obey this command. Why humility? Because when we understand that we deserve NOTHING, yet we receive many wonderful things, we will eventually learn how to accept that both good and bad things will be given to us. Therefore, we will readily receive even the unpleasant things with equal thanksgiving and joy the same as when we receive pleasant ones.  

 "The humble will see their God at work and be glad.  
 Let all who seek God’s help be encouraged." 
[Psalm 69:32, NLT]



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Tuesday, November 10, 2015

I Speak Only From Experience

First love never dies, a cliché but oh so true! Writing must’ve been it, at least for me. It keeps embracing me back even after long whiles of absence. Just when I thought I would end the year with very few posts (for the lack of interest and drive), an opportunity knocked. *bright smile* I, once again, embrace the fact that writing is very much a part of me by taking this on-the-side gig, which came out of the blue. A wonderful blessing. An answered prayer.

On a different note............. 

Yesterday afternoon, I went my way to Mindanao Avenue in Quezon City for a meeting at this interesting dining place. It’s a humble, welcoming place where you can taste “something else”…and where you can take a break from the usual and unhealthy fast food menus. Here, they serve organic goodies, and to my surprise, native chicken and goat! Well, the name speaks for itself—T.G.G.A., which stands for “The Great Goat Adventure”. No, I don't think this diner is in anyway connected to the blog site with the same name. It’s, rather, the “Home of the Best Goat Recipes and Other Naturally Grown Meals.” Not so many (I belong to this demographic) may be as adventurous to try out few and far between meals, but take it from me, it is worth the try.

I was blessed I was offered and served a nice plate of what they call, Ilokonganisa Taco Salad, which is unbelievably only priced at P85. Friends and family know I am no veggie eater. But, this salad truly appealed to my taste buds. I couldn’t stop taking a bite while listening to the presenter. Quite embarrassing, but it’s just so irresistible!

Too bad am not a big eater. So, I resolved to just going back to T.G.G.A. really soon with friends to try out their other offers. You may take a look at what is on T.G.G.A.'s menu by visiting Happy Culture Good Company. Am actually looking at it right now and already choosing what to try. Hmmm...I think I'd try their Cabbage Rolls (P65), Goat Sampler (P980 good for 4-5 peeps), Insarabasab (P110 solo / P330 sharing), and I know a friend who will surely go for the Goat Ramen (P99).  

T.G.G.A. also have a cozy function room for small gatherings. Perfect for intimate get-togethers especially this holiday season. I rarely give recommendations, but this one is a must-try. 

T.G.G.A. - “The Great Goat Adventure” 
 Address: #70 Mindanao Avenue, Project 6, Quezon City 
Contact numbers:  632  517 98 95 / 63919 465 2654 / 63915 435 1457 
Twitter: @tggamindanaoave

Will definitely write about my next visit and will tell more. ^_^ Drop by again. 

Toodle-oo for now!







Saturday, October 31, 2015

People are Cratered by Imperfections and It's Not All Bad.

It is quite apparent how people live in misconceptions on almost about everything. Myself included. At times I wish I knew the things I know now earlier in life so I could have made better decisions. Guess life really brings lessons only after the tests. Life teaches through series of situational exams and our response determines the outcome. But I do not believe that there is such thing as “failure”. Mistakes may have been made but they are not equivalent to failure. I’d rather take them as take away lessons the teacher did not intend to teach. It is more like a discovery while we are striving for something else. And come to think of it…discoveries, though they normally come as accidental finds, they turn into something of true value. So it dawned on me that most of the priceless things in life are not the ones we strive after – perfection, excellence, i.e. – rather, they are the ones we so try to avoid – errors, mistakes, i.e. – yet we end up stumbling over.

In times when I encounter difficulty that seem to stay longer than I wish it to, I get to question what I believe in. Like, “I thought God intends to prosper and not to harm” ???!!! At other times, I ask if the same "promise" is intended for everyone. Does He intend the same for me? It is during tough times that people are tested of what they are truly made of. One can never truly say they believe in something until what they believe in is tried. Do I only believe anything when things are promising? Or can I still believe even when there is no proof of its truth? This is the challenge.

Am I talking about just faith by putting all my thoughts down on this note in this manner? Is it even a test of faith that this is all about? When life gets hard and things start tearing me apart…and I faint…and I question…does it automatically translate to lack of faith? Or faith is rather challenged? What I do know is…God is an All-Knowing God. He knows none of His creations have faith enough to survive this life. He is aware of the frailty of man and how they will always falter. Does He condemn having little faith? If there is anything I am so sure of…it is that God understands people through Christ. In the Eyes of Jesus and through His Heart that God looks at His creations. Not at the superficial. Not outwardly.

There are people who seem so unbreaking, unbending on the outside yet torn in the inside. There are those who are so shattered outwardly, but gains strength within. How will God deal with situations where people can mask their misdeeds with well-decorated words and dedication to ministry, and yet murder others through malicious talks? They appear like sheep in the eyes of everyone, yet they’re like wolves in their inner being…always on the look out for another prey. They dress themselves with much embellishments, but on the inside are clutters of toxic elements like that of a volcano just waiting to explode. God sees what the human eyes can’t. What people judge to be right may not be necessarily and absolutely right in the bigger scheme of things. Even the ugly mistakes every person commit have contribution to a bigger whole.

One must never say, “had I been wise I could have done better…achieved better.” Yes, it is noble. True, if things were done perfectly, it could’ve saved the world from chaos. The ripple effect could have been astounding. But there is no such thing as “perfect”. Life will always present troubles we are not always ready to face, yet we are left with no other choice but to face them. We may run from them all we want but without guarantee that they will never show up again. Thing is, they do. And the next time they come, they are more brusque.

I describe it like a computer game. You need to face all challenges in your current level. You remain there unless you figure out how to get to the next. And when you do, you will face more and tougher challenges. The challenges from the previous level may appear, but they've become easy as a pie now because you've already mastered them. You also get to use ammo and elixirs from the earlier levels. And you need to keep collecting more. So is with life. You will be thrown varieties of challenges. You do not learn by just watching other people how they do life. You gotta live it yourself and keep learning. You often think you already know what to do until you are in a situation yourself. And you don’t always do things right. Mistakes happen and  they are what teach you to do things better next time. You just tell yourself, “now I know. I’ll do better after this.”

And we are this forgiving of ourselves more than we are forgiving of other’s follies. We are prone to criticize how others are so wrong in how they handle things. In stead of helping lift their burden, we put on more. We make them loathe themselves til they succumb to self-pity, then to hopelessness. We are so good at pointing fingers at, we do not even consider how we'll do should we be in the situation the person we are judging is in. We just think we are so good. We are so right. We do things perfectly. Until trouble shows us that what we think is wrong.

Pride makes us believe we are better than who we judge. But we need to be careful not to stumble when the storm of life comes and our very own stand gets tried. Our struggles may be different from those we judge and theirs may not be our struggles. But, this is the very reason why the Word tells us to, “bear with each others’ burdens” and “be tolerant with one another.” We need to be kinder to everyone who we meet along our journeys and we must not be harsh with the words we use to speak about their troubles. Because they are the ones carrying the loads not us. Why should we pin point what we perceive as their stupidity? Will that help them? Will that change their fate? Will that have any effect on us either? Judging others is simply pointless. No bearing. No contribution neither to others nor to ourselves.

In this life, it all boils down to but one absolute Truth – we can do nothing good apart from God. We may believe our innate good, but within, lies another truth about our selfishness. For why do we have the need to judge others? Does that contribute to the welfare of anyone,  including ourselves? But we judge out of selfish desire to exhibit our perceived wisdom and understanding about things. We are too selfish we do not intend to think for the welfare of another so we just hurl at them whatever we feel like whether it is beneficial for them or not. It makes us feel so good about ourselves that we seem to be better than who we are judging, when our acts already echoes our foolishness. We are no better given the same situation without God’s help. We can boast about nothing of our own. “None is righteous, no not one.”

My train of thoughts can go on and on but here are the things that summarize all them:

1. Mistakes are part of life. No one is immune. It does not define anyone; it intends to contribute to the well-being just with the right response.

2. Our faith will always be challenged. We must never give in to guilt when we start questioning things. It only shows we are thriving.

3. God supplies faith through Jesus. No one can boast about having greater faith than the other. It is only God Who decides who really has faith.

4. People put on a facade according to how they want to be seen. We can fool others to please them and gain their applause, but we cannot hide from God. Must not matter if we gain recognition from people when God sees the true motive of the heart.

5. Regret does not help. We must only pick up every lesson we can in every situation.

6. There is nothing else to do but to keep moving. Keep learning. Keep gaining strength. Do not stop even when life gets hard.

7. As we are tolerant of our mistakes and sins, we must also be gracious when others are erring. We need not compare how we do things better because that do not lift up another’s load.

8. God alone is to be glorified not ourselves. If we did excellently, let alone God glorify who He wants to glorify.

It’s never about a single person doing great things, after all. It is about God using anyone and everyone to bring about His greater purpose for all His creations. Each one of us is just but part of the puzzle. We are the pieces. Each one is significant. When one is missing, our concern must be to look for it. Otherwise, the puzzle won’t be complete. God does not concern Himself beautifying only some and neglecting others. That is why He commands everyone to have sincere love for one another. He NEVER said, “go build establishments and assemble people there.” He said, “go and spread love everywhere you go because you, each one of you, are my Church. I dwell in you and I will that you bear fruit for the benefit of the entire body. Not just the parts that are useful, the rich, the ones who go to good schools, those who always do right, the healthy, the strong…I care about every single piece that completes the puzzle. I do not care about your opinion of them. I listen not to your judgment of them. In fact, I told you not to judge and condemn. I taught compassion. Do unto others what you want them to do to you. Outdo others in doing good. Do not think so highly of yourselves. Show to the erring person your love because the suffering (s)he is experiencing because of his/her sin is already unbearable. Do not inflict guilt. Do not slander anyone. Love sincerely.”

The Bible reading believers must know God’s decrees and apply them in their lives. They ought not to impose them on others as they see fit. We are all in a relationship with God and He deals with His children differently according to their personality, attitude, and character. He handles them according to their designs. He alone knows His own products. We need not meddle with that by criticizing how poorly-made a design is. In essence, we judge not the creation but the Creator.

Simply live in love. If you can’t, just shut up.


“By judging others we blind ourselves to our own evil and to the grace which others are just as entitled to as we are.”  ―  The Cost of Discipleship 





Friday, October 9, 2015

Living Large and Taking Charge!


Most of my life has been spent always shrinking myself... making myself smaller, quieter, less opinionated, less sensitive, less needy..... less ME. I have been denying myself my humanity, my identity, my being. For what? Because I didn't want to be a burden. I didn't want to push people away. I long to be liked, wanted, cared for, and valued. I desired to be appreciated and loved... so for the longest time I sacrificed myself for the sake of making people around me happy. And all those years, I suffered. I was without a voice, without a right, without a right to my emotions. I denied myself so many things thinking that someone else will fill me...will be kind enough to see my sacrifices. I suffered for giving too much, but...

I am tired of suffering.   

I am done shrinking.  

It is NOT my job, nor do I exist, to change who I am just to become someone else's  idea of a worthwhile human being.  

I am worthwhile ...regardless of how others define me. God put me here on Earth and I exist, therefore, I matter.  My thoughts, my feelings, my voice...matter. So, with or without anyone's approval, I will continue to be who I am. I will continue to speak my truth.

 This is ME. God created me in His image and likeness. He didn't commit a mistake forming the person that I am--flaws and all. I am His masterpiece. So, I will celebrate ME...I will be who I am even if it makes people angry. No matter what others say, for as long as I offend no one (intentionally), I will just be ME. Even if they choose to leave, I refuse to shrink. I choose to take up space, to honor my feelings. I give myself permission to get my needs met. All because I was bought at a price. Jesus lived, suffered, and died to give me life, and to live it to the full. He gave me my right to be who I am. He respects my humanity and He improves my character with every situation I face without putting me down...without making me feel bad for committing so many mistakes. There is no condemnation in Him because He looks at my heart not at my weaknesses and tendencies. He allows me my pace to change. Why must I let people drown me in their little minds?  Why must their opinion of who I am and how I should live my life be more important than how God views me? I am assured of His love. That should be more than enough. ^_^





Friday, July 10, 2015

Let's All Stand Firmly Together Against the Many Faces of Hate


Been reading various opinions from both sides ―Christians and the LGBTs― since the controversial "ruling" was announced. (Just "since the final decision was announced" because...yeah...I have to confess that I am not well informed of the current events. If dad were still here, I sure will get another verbal whack! But, thanks to social networking sites, I get to be informed even delayed.) And for the past weeks since the pronouncement, there are non-stop counterarguments regarding the issue. In as much as I wanna just remain silent about it (as if my opinion matter!) I can't just keep my mouth shut anymore. (Well, can't stop my fingers from typing, actually.) There's a part of me that wants to just say something...anything.

I am a Christian. I have certain convictions and beliefs that are strictly Biblical. So, whoever you are reading this, expect that I will speak what the Word says. Only, that's not my intention for writing this blog post. I am not going to join the bandwagon of Christians who are out to defend God's law because I am confidently sure that God, Himself, can do that. If He will ever use me (or anyone) to send an important message to the group involved, He has a much better way in mind, for sure, than just make me write another "open letter" for whoever to address the issue.  

I thought to write this because I want to be involved. Not to be involved in the heated discussions and disputations. Not to prove that I have something to say and that I have a point. But, I guess as part of the human race, I need to contribute something...even the littlest thing I can―my voice. And, with this I hope to help tone down, if not end, the growing friction between the two parties I mentioned.

It's sad that Christians are being blamed for the harsh reactions of the LGBTs. The latter resents how judgmental Christians are. So they go give some tongue-lashing. They say that Christians are hypocrites and hypercritical. Some even went as far as questioning the "God" Christians serve. I personally listened to some people saying the LGBTs won't bother Christians if only the latter would stop judging them...that it's the Christians' fault. They're so busy-bodies. They should just "live and let live". They're the ones who started the feud. 

What I have to say about that is this: we all have some things we fight for. Some fight for animal rights. Some women's rights. Others nature. Some others justice. WE all fight for something we feel or think is right or fair. But, it's not necessarily, as a rule, right or fair. Say for example, "human rights" for criminals. Those criminals didn't even respect the human rights of the persons they violated, but then "human rights" apply to them. Criminals and their families fight for their human rights (the right not to be subjected to torture or inhuman and degrading treatment―though they've done exactly that!). The victims' families fight for justice. Whose fight must win? Same goes with what the LGBTs and the Christians are separately fighting for...the question is, "whose right is right?"

When we talk about Christians fighting to uphold the law of God, must we say that they are judgmental? Is it right that they be accused of not loving, which is the commandment of Jesus? They quote the Bible, which contains God's law and decree. Is that wrong? The Bible has been written to maintain order. It is Law in Itself. That's why the Ten Commandments are taught so that we won't harm each other. One definition of the word LAW in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary is: a rule of conduct or action prescribed or formally recognized as binding or enforced by a controlling authority. And before everything else in this world has been created, God has already determined His law and decrees. He is the Authority of all authorities. I do not need to stress enough what His Law says about what the LGBTs are fighting for. It is clearly stated in the book of Revelations and in many other books in the Bible. Naturally, as advocates of God's Law, Christians will speak of what the Law says. Christians act as Law enforcers or policemen.  What does a law enforcer or a policeman do? They have the duty of maintaining law and order. In their (Christians) case, they are maintaining the Law of God to keep everything IN "order".  Must they be charged for doing what they're supposed to be doing? They are fighting NOT for what they want, or feel, or think. They are fighting for what has long been established―God's Law and Decrees. 

.....While the LGBTs fight for what they want and feel regardless of whether it is acceptable in the Eyes of God...whether or not it is within the Law of God. They disregard the Law and make their own ...just to justify what they feel like doing. To follow what their heart dictates. To satisfy the cravings of their flesh. And then, throw arguments like, "why would a loving god prevent people from loving whoever they have in their hearts to love?" Aren't we all so accustomed to witnessing how even an insignificant traffic rule is being violated for whatever justification comes to mind? Thinking they can always get away with it? Simple things like, "don't litter" we choose not to follow. And then when fined, would still have the guts to protest.

"God created humanity in His image, created them MALE and FEMALE." [Genesis 1:27] Why do we go and create for ourselves another gender? Isn't it disobedience to God's rule that kicked Adam and Eve out of the Garden of Eden? Eating the fruit of that particular tree God told them to not have anything to do with isn't the sin they committed against God. It is disobedience. It is their resistance to obey His set rule. These Christians only act as police officers maintaining/enforcing God's Law. They're not perfect. They also commit certain violations just like policemen, judges, politicians do. But, they still ought to do their duty as God's servants, nevertheless. Truth of the matter is, plain and simple, what the LGBTs are fighting for is against the original design of God.



Because people did those things, God left them and let them do the shameful things they wanted to do. Women stopped having natural sex with men and started having sex with other women. In the same way, men stopped having natural sex with women and began wanting each other all the time. Men did shameful things with other men, and in their bodies they received the punishment for those wrongs. [Romans 1:26–27]


If artists are protesting that their designs are being copied, therefore, their lawful right to their masterpieces is violated, how much more the Creator of all things has the right to also make a stand? Point is: Christians are only doing their tasks to help maintain God's Law by quoting Biblical passages. They are NOT judging.


Note: I do apologize on behalf of those who assertively foisted Biblical Truths on LGBTs in a condemning manner.  And yeah, if even this post come out offensive, I apologize. 


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And to Christians who boldly write, comment and/or speak about their faith and belief and the Word Itself...please, realize that it does not help as much. It only adds fuel to the fire. Yes, your intentions are right and noble. Your courage is very impressive. It's commendable how you fight to uphold God's Law. But, aggressively doing things only aggravate the situation. We are to win them, not to repel them. Let's not give them reasons to keep calling us judgmental and hypocrites. Yes, we do speak the Truth but let's handle the Truth properly. We've been given each one of us our own jurisdictions where our influences have power. Let's concentrate there―where people can truly hear us and listen carefully. Understand that the Word already made it clear that it is God, Himself, Who will draw people to Him. (John 6:44) ‘Anyone the Father does not help to come to Me cannot come.’ ~ Jesus [John 6:65] We can trust that God is not threatened by human disobedience or their resistance to submit under His authority. He is God and He can definitely do something about the matter.

It is God's heart and intention that everyone will be saved. But, let us recognize that there are people who don't realize they need salvation. Because they do not know the requirements of God. They do not know the Law of God so they are under self-rule. Some don't even know that God exists. And, unless we tame our tongues from blurting out Bible verses that don't teach them what they need to learn first...the basic things―that there is God and that He is the Authority, not them, over their lives and that He has set rules for everyone to follow―they won't understand what Revelations say and it'll only appear to them as our judgment against them.

God wants to make His Law known to everyone and it is through Christ. And it is our Christian duty to deliver the message of the Cross; not to enumerate the sins people do and must stop doing. If all we do is force them to obey the Law and they don't even know that there's such a Law and that there's a Higher Authority up there they need to consider, we'll be so focused enforcing the Law―rules and regulations―not anymore exercising mercy and grace. We end up neglecting to do what Jesus and the Apostles did―they spread the Good News of Salvation. They did not quote the Laws of God that people must follow. They did not make the people change their ways (or make them obey the commandments of God) first before sharing them the Gospel of Christ. What they did was they introduced Christ's salvation "first", then it's that same salvation that changed people.

Jesus' instruction is loud and clear, LOVE. We don't need to be so offended that God's Law is being violated because we still get to violate some of His commandments even we're already in a relationship with Him. Even if we already know His standards and requirements. We need to stop making it harder for them to be saved. "If it is hard for even a good person to be saved, what will happen to the one who is against God and full of sin?" [1 Peter 4:8]  So, in stead of harshly reproaching them, we ought to be extra compassionate to them. Understand that what they need is to know that they are in need of God, and that God wants to restore His relationship with mankind, and help them obey His Law. Not to make them follow His Law first before they can be right with Him. It's much easier to comply to a rule when it is based on a relationship in stead of duty. Those who throw litters in front of the building of the company they're working at have no love and care for the building, which is the main reason why it is hard for them to obey the sign: "DO NOT LITTER". Our main task as Christians is to lead them to Christ in order for them to have a relationship with God; and, eventually learn to love Him, which then, will be the very reason why they obey. Nobody can change themselves apart from God's grace.









Wednesday, July 8, 2015

Disobedience and Rule Breaking: The New Trend?


Just what are we actually implying whenever we refuse to obey the law of God, our Creator? Here's what...We're practically saying that God's Law is NOT good and that it does not apply to us. So we deny and defy it. Our behavior, choices, and decisions prove that we are bound by no law...that our individual judgment is better than God's judgment. We live under our own authorities because we do not acknowledge His Authority. We show Him that we are outside His rule and government. We are our own kings. We tell Him to His Face that we have all the right to do what "we want" to do and not what HE commands us to do. Firmly refusing to surrender to His will and turning ourselves into our own little gods...we strongly imply, "not Your will, GOD, but my will be done!"


God gave us His Law for our own good. We can't be our own judges as to what is right and what is wrong based on our own feelings and judgments. There must only be one absolute authority. One standard Law―God's. Otherwise, left to our own, we all would set our own individual rules to follow out of selfish gains and motives. Each one has their own. All according to our mood for the moment, which later on, will change. And rarely are we considerate of others' welfare before our own.


For why are there crimes? Why do people violate another's rights? Why do people steal, kill, slander? Because they do not comply to set rules. Not even rules set by the smallest unit of society―family. They disobey their parents just to satisfy their desires and to do what they want. They won't even follow the rules in small establishments. They litter everywhere, sneak out some small items they can insert in their bags. They think they can defy the law any way they want as they feel like doing. They see only what for them is good (for them... what is convenient...) but not entirely for the common good. They do as they please until their very own right is violated.


One person may see nothing wrong when he gossips, yet when it is he who becomes the object of gossip will find it foul. Another person may think it is just okay to vandalize his neighbor's fence, justifying that it's art. But, when it is His belonging that's defaced, would not hesitate to immediately file a complaint. Some others would outrightly criticize his fellow to a point of humiliation, then when the same is done to him would protest he was abused or harassed. People judge a thing based on what benefit he will get out of his own self-imposed rule, but it is not necessarily acceptable to another person.


God's Law gives us an "established" set of rules and regulations to observe, which does not protect one's cause and violates another's. It serves the common good and welfare of all. It is just and trustworthy.  ^_^





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